Well, the Philip thing is false. In history, they both didn't shoot. They just looked at each other for a while, waiting for one to shoot. Eacker was the first to shoot, as we know, but he didn't shoot him on seven. He actually waited.
I don't follow this. Yes, Hamilton had six younger children while Theodosia was 22. But don't get angry at him for caring about his daughter. Thats all he did, guys. He cared for his daughter and that's not a crime